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I Can Help Couples Find Your Way Back or even gently come apart. . .

  • Pre-Marital Counseling (can only help make you love each other more)

  • Are We a Good Fit? Help identify the “non-negotiables” v. the “I can live with that.”

  • High Conflict Couples: How much fighting is too much?

  • STAY OR GO OR something in between: (this is called Discernment Therapy)

  • We Never Have Sex: (Stop using the word “never” and find ways to be physical)

  • After the AFFAIR: (Lots and lots of healing is needed, before the repair)

  • Where Has the Love Gone? Was it ever there? May need to discover it anew.

  • The Same Fight, Over and Over (Join every couple in the universe. See it, change it.)

  • Being the Best (Divorced) Couple You Can Be No one wants this. Damage control.

  • Money Issues Always lurking in the shadows. Bring them out and we’ll deal with them.

  • Dealing with Exes and Children Love your kids more than you hate your ex.

 

Families are Complex, Not Impossible

The potential for love — and conflict — is huge with couples and families. We need attached relationships “from cradle to grave,” no matter how old we are or how many years have gone by with grudges or unspoken pain. Being in the same room with a sibling or parent shows that you care enough to try to hear each others’ feelings. You’d be surprised at how different our “stories” can be, and how mutual respect and compassion can rise above any conflict or difficult situation.

Each individual deserves to be happy and loved. Even in the most troubled families, healthy boundaries can be drawn to soften the scars of history.

I see families in all combinations. Three generations hashing out old feuds. Identical twins with irreconcilable differences. Adult children wanting to work together and be closer than they were as kids. Friends who feel like siblings. Grieving families torn apart by the loss of one of their own.